Skip to main content

Posts

Failure, Rejection, Losing - Formula for SUCCESS!

Have you ever wonder what is the true formula for SUCCESS? well if we are going to base it on those who have success, You may find out that their formula is not all gloomy and It is not all fun. They just make mistakes, fail at something and move forward, Improve themselves after countless rejection and loss. The outline would be is learning, and what you do after experiencing those things. There is a quote saying No one is held back by empty pocket but by empty minds. Meaning ideals are the tipping point whether you make it in action or not. It is your deciding factor in the formula whether is a success or not. But be reminded that your success and its definition depends on how you see it. It may be short and shallow but it is your success. It may be Big and grand but it is a success for you. We can consider our success over the battles we've won or over the wars we have won. One good example is what make's Jordan the greatest baller of all time. His stor...

Happiness, achieving true happiness

What is True Happiness? Is true happiness about finding your one true love? Is it about prosperity and abundance? Is it about doing things extraordinary? Is it about feeling Good? Is it about eating your favorite food? Is it about having the best day of your life? Have you asked yourself what is real happiness? What is authentic happiness? If you ask me, Happiness is something we do. It is not just an experience or a moment. It is something we exercise and do. We could have all the money in the world yet your not happy. It is something that deals with our way of thinking and seeing things. There is this story, they were this Parent who is having a hard time figuring out what to do, with their twins. Because one of the twins are so pessimistic that everything is sorrow and everything is like the end of the world. And guess what is the other one? Yeah, you've guessed it correctly. The other twin is the opposite. The other twin has this vibe that you can't kill...

Dealing with money!

Emotionally and Rationally! I want to cut in half this topic. How we deal with our money, in my opinion, Is like our future. You'll know what will happen to that person because of how he/she deals with his/her own money however it is not the entire basis of what might happen to that person's future The 1st half of this topic is all about emotionally dealing with your money. We often or many time use our money base on our emotion. On what we feel. If I feel hungry, of course, you might go outside and buy yourself a Food or if you felt that you deserve nice clothes you will zoom to the nearest boutique or department store to buy yourself something. but dealing with our money with our emotion is a bad combination. because at the end we tend to lose focus and we began asking oneself where my money went to. However, we need to control our emotion while dealing with our money.  It is needed to be used to your advantage, not your disadvantage. The 2nd half of this...

What makes a Great leader?

For a century we have looked up to many people in search of what is Leadership? Let me tell you something leaders are not born but made. It is something we and you can learn. But let me point out something in order to lead you to need to know to obey first and be led by others. And you know what? it is vexing a lot of people what is leadership all about? Okay. Let me take the subject in half. Have you ever wonder what is leadership are not all about? Well, Leadership is not about having INFLUENCE. at first, i thought it too because it is what John Maxwell is saying but the term to influence is too general. when we say to influence, it kinda meant to inspire others to push themselves to the limit in order to accomplish one GOAL. Not just short term but a long-term one. It is about a GREATER GOOD. It is not about the number of followers you have, Leadership is about multiplication and division. Leaders are those who can teach others so that they can be leaders as well. ...

Being a Good Listener!

Being a Good listener.... Hmmm... Being one make you a person who is understanding. You tend, or this person tends to notice almost every detail to what the person is speaking. The listener may not understand all that the speaker is saying but a Good listener writes or tends to keep important details so that in context he/she understands what is told. Listening to speaking, or person who tends to observe and listen are natural leaders Don't get me wrong, Leaders are not born but made but if you are a Good Listener. then you have a great potential to be one. here a video about being a Good Listener: Listening, and being Good at one give the person what is the meaning of every statement. They often connect everything you say to any meaning. A person who has Good EQ or higher EQ. has Good listening Skill, therefore, giving them the awareness of the situation or people. It is one of the most critical skills for a Good communicator Because he who can speak greatl...

Be Consistent, Finish Up what you started!

Have you ever done something that you haven't finish? I remember when watching the movie "Walt Before Mickey". Disney Father reminded him that he Need to finish what he started. all throughout the movie that's what stayed in my mind. It stayed in my mind until today and it got me thinking. Disney(Walt) Dad has a point, he made his point that everything that his son started. He must Finish it. That he shouldn't quit when he is almost grasping his success. Finishing is something we need to do. when we feel that the road are too long just remember that whether you are fast or slow the important thing is that we are moving. And Note this, Every once in awhile we may feel that there nothing is happening but there is. We're just not seeing it in another perspective. A very Good example of this is the new president of the Philippines Rodrigo R. Duterte, he is the oldest president there is. And he is in the public service for a very long time but people...

Correct Mindset?

Have you asked yourself what is the correct mindset? The correct mindset comes from yourself, not from your parents or mentor In fact, a mindset is a big thing. It set us up into GO mode. When we become motivated, we quickly set our self before making any decision to make the BIG ONE. Athletes usually do this before games, maybe your mindset is a ritual that you do before a game. Okay, what is the correct mindset? In my opinion having a growth, mindset sets you up to grow and learn more. It differs from having a fixed mindset that limits your capability to do more. It is so much important to set yourself up. build yourself up and read more in order to grow more. As a human, we have no boundaries. we only limit ourselves to what we cannot achieve. We are created by God to be more. in fact, every inch of our body is perfection. If you are going to study the human anatomy, you will see that every cell of our body has its function. It's incredible. So if you are thi...